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Ann
Crittenden's latest book: "If You've Raised
Kids, You Can Manage Anything"
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Set Priorities.
Dont Sweat the Small Stuff.
Remember the Four Ds: Dont
Do It (unless its absolutely necessary);
Dovetail It (do it at the same time
as something else); Delegate It (ie:
to the kids); Delay It (until you dont
have to do it.
Let Them Think It Was Their Idea.
Never Bring Up a Problem Without
Offering a Solution.
Pick Your Fights. Remember, calm
is always the high ground.
Give Out Gold Stars. No one is
ever too old or too accomplished to
appreciate a little praise.
In Negotiating, Always Seek a
Win-Win Solution. But remember the bargaining
power of the Irrational NO!
Listen Carefully and Respectful
ly to others. No one should leave the
table without feeling theyve been
heard.
Dont Rush to "Fix"
Everything. Sit With a problem until
the right solution emerges.
Encourage the Talents that Are
There, rather than try to make people
someone theyre not. Remember,
Everyone Is Good at Something.
Use Positive Reinforcement, a
self-fulfilling prophecy. Remember The
Little Engine That Could: "I think
I can, I think I can..."
Let People Go. Let them make
their own mistakes, within reasonable
boundaries - its the only way
they grow and learn.
Loosen Up and Lighten Up. Remember,
creativity and playfulness go hand in
hand.
"Being There" for your
people is as important as being there
for your kids. Unconditional love is
a wonderful management tool.
Never Play Favorites. Children,
employees, and constituents are all
hard-wired to want fairness. (The fairness
rule: if theres only one cookie,
have one child divide it and the other
pick the first piece).
No Whining; No Excuses; Always
Do Your Homework.
Always Say Please and Thank You.
Take the Long View. Rome wasnt
built in a day, and children dont
grow up overnight. Everything important
takes time.
More about the book:
About
the Book
Did
You Know?
Management Tips From Mothers
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More about the book:
About the Book
Did
You Know?
Management Tips From Mothers
On Sale August 23rd, 2004
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